Appeasement

Now that I have learned the concept of appeasement I realize that I do not use this concept often in my life. This may be one of my many, many weaknesses. I am often wound up too tight and rarely let anything slide. This leads to the loss and destruction of many friendships. I also never appease any school work. I always do every homework assignment no matter how pointless they are. I have been given such a good opprotunity to go to such a great school, why waste it. The only time I appease people is in sports and in relationships (with women). In sports I often allow the opponent some appeasement so that he will be able to survive my wrath. In relationships (with women) one must appease the opposite sex if they want to have a successful relationship. I wasn't informed this in a my last relationship and the relationship quickly ended because both my partner and I often butted heads about time management, PDA, and other things of that nature. I think that appeasement is a very confusing thing that needs to be greatly considered while in any relationship. It is different in every situation and a formula cannot be used to understand it's importance.

After rethinking the term appeasement I believe that an example in my life where I am appeased is when I want to attend a party and at first my mom does not want me to go. Then after persuasion she will let me go, however I will need to come home by ten o'clock although the party ends much later. So my mother appeases me to go the party, yet I will need to leave it early.